如你所是的部落格

傳導：丹尼爾·斯克蘭頓

譯者：揚升傳導

我們在這裡為你們服務。我們是造物主。我們是一個由非物質存在組成的第十二維度集體，我們來這裡是為了提供幫助。

我們知道，你們在生活的各個方面總是盡力而為，尤其是在與他人的所有關係方面。你們對與你們有關係的其他人可能很嚴厲，因為你們對自己很嚴厲，並且因為其他人或幾個人對你們很嚴厲。你們可能正在做你們認為在戀愛關係中最合適的事情，因為這是你們曾經為自己塑造的一切。

當你們與其他人建立戀愛關係時，一開始你們往往會看到他們最好的一面。然後隨着時間的推移，你們往往會看到他們的所有部分，結果你們會感覺自己對那個人的愛越來越少。一般人會試圖改變他們的伴侶，試圖讓他們的伴侶看到他們的方式的錯誤，這樣他們就可以塑造並成為他們關係中最初出現的那個非常可愛的人。當然，現在這對不同的人有不同程度的作用，但在大多數情況下，要求對方改變的人需要改變。

對你們所有人來說，重要的是要看到你們就是你們想要感受到的愛，並且無論對方在做什麼，你們都可以在自己內心產生這種愛並感受到它。當你們向對方發送愛並在任何情況下都表現出愛時，你們就會從對方那裡得到你們認為你們需要的東西，但你們是從自己內心得到的。你們看，當你們看着那個人或想着他們時，你們不需要任何其他人改變就能體驗到愛。你們可能需要改變關注那個人的方式。當你們想念那個人時，你們可能需要決定要專注在什麼，但你們不需要對方完善自己，這樣你們就可以提供他們有條件的愛。

許多人在一段又一段關係中認為他們最終會找到“那個人”，他將成為他們認為另一個人需要成為的一切。接受並愛自己原本的樣子很重要，對生活中的其他人也同樣重要，無論這段關係是否是浪漫的關係。我們知道你們對你們的孩子和你們的父母抱有很高的期望。你們期望他們始終與源頭保持一致，並將對源頭的無條件的愛傳遞給你們。但他們常常做不到，因為他們沒有被教導如何這樣做。

當我們告訴你們進入內在並從內心產生真正的愛時，這就是我們正在嘗試做的。我們試着教你們如何找到你們真正的愛，這樣你們就可以在所有情況下和所有人周圍感受到它並感受到它。然後你們就不會要求別人來完善你們或無條件地愛你們。這會讓你們的生活變得更輕鬆，讓你們的人際關係變得更好，只要你們需要，你們就會讓自己充實起來，因為你們已經實踐了它，你們已經實踐了它，因為你們想成為與另一個人處於一種充滿愛的浪漫關係中。然而，最終，你們想開始與自己建立這種關係。

我們是造物主，我們非常愛你們。

Your Romantic Relationships ∞The 12D Creators, a Nonphysical Collective Consciousness, Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 

We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.

When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.

It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.

Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.

When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.

We are The Creators, and we love you very much.”