We were recently asked by someone how they could be more loving toward their husband. They were not happy with how they were treating their partner, and wished to shift it.This is a common experience within relationships and we wished to discuss this today.
最近有人詢問我們如何去更愛自己的丈夫。他們對自己對待伴侶的方式並不滿意,希望改變。這是人際關係中一個常見的體驗,我們今天來討論一下這個問題。
You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to. In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.
如果你沒有感覺到愛,你就無法強迫自己去變得更加有愛。你無法從抵抗的能量中找到一個流動的空間。你必須添加另一個你並不抵抗的元素。關於變得更加有愛,我們建議你不要專注於愛,而是去專注於欣賞之上。
最近有人詢問我們如何去更愛自己的丈夫。他們對自己對待伴侶的方式並不滿意,希望改變。這是人際關係中一個常見的體驗,我們今天來討論一下這個問題。
You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to. In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.
如果你沒有感覺到愛,你就無法強迫自己去變得更加有愛。你無法從抵抗的能量中找到一個流動的空間。你必須添加另一個你並不抵抗的元素。關於變得更加有愛,我們建議你不要專注於愛,而是去專注於欣賞之上。

